Relationships are the real experience. Is it positive or negative? Does the relationship add or subtract? The answer affects performance.
What is really wanted? Hopefully, not a false relationship.
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7. Relationship. Relationships are encoded positive or negative. Negative is feeling a
lack and seeking to fill that lack.
A positive relationship is shared by extension. Relationships are the real experience. Is it positive or negative? Does the relationship add or subtract? The answer affects performance. What is really wanted? Hopefully, not a false relationship. |
| 7. RELATIONSHIP |
| Period of unsettling. |
| Predict: Relate. [False relationship] |
| THE MIND MODEL | |||
|---|---|---|---|
| PROOF | STIMULUS | DECISION | EFFECT |
| ENCODES | 1. Attract | 7. Relationship | 13. Interdependent |
| See relationship | Value (or lack). | Accept reality. | Qualify relationships. |
| INFERS | 2. Promise | 8. Consolidate | 14. Connect |
| Prefer meaniing. | Indicate benefits. | Enforce relationships. | Secure relationships. |
| MAPS | 3. Understand | 9. Consistency | 15. Priority |
| Build structure. | Build trust. | Face the issues. | See importance. |
| APPLY | 4. Respect | 10. Courtesy | 16. Commit |
| Validate. | Value qualities. | Honor behavior. | Accept importance. |
| PROVES | 5. Know | 11. Ethical | 17. Resolve |
| Give credit. | Define relationships. | Appropriate conduct. | Enforce commitments. |
| RESOLVES | 6. Affirm | 12. Support | 18. Satisfy |
| Choose wisely. | Commit self. | Meet needs. | Create value.. |
| Last link here is the concern of the next model. |